Marketing has always spoon fed us the notion that MORE=Happy.
We figure if we have more food, a larger pool, a bigger house, more money, more friends that THAT will mean we are happy!
It takes a long time to reach the glutenous conclusion that "More" does not make one happy.
We have a government that figures MORE laws, MORE forms, MORE requirements will make things run smoother, but it doesn't. More red tape helps no one. MORE is not the answer...less is! Wouldn't it be lovely if all the laws were reduced to the Hippocratic Oath? "Do No Harm."
I have watched those that have it all, flounder, rot and die of boredom. The only thing that keeps them afloat is changing and starting over, because starting is exciting. We live to try things anew, to start new stories. A bit of danger and the insecurity of NOT knowing everything is safe produces endorphins that lift us out of ourselves and we strive to do the impossible. That is called living, whether we succeed or fail we have a story worth telling.
As you examine demographics of the baby boomers, you can watch the generation go through almost child-psychology-like steps.
So there you have life. The graph can be laid out on top of every generation as we start wise, beat ourselves up to play our cultures dictated game, give up and appreciate what we had from the beginning.
I am on the downhill side of this bell curve and watch others doing what I have done. Downsize which means, less to move, less to insure, less to lock up, less to look for things you have misplaced, less paperwork.
Your assignment is to look past your culture's dictated game of life and create what makes you happy, taking the consequences and the lack of safety as part of your adventure.
The only way that you will find your happiness is by first appreciating every little component around you. If where you focus IS reality, which is my premise throughout this blog, you will be far happier if you can focus on what a generation of experience starts and comes back to...its the little things that are of value.
Enjoy the journey by creating it yourself. Hugs, Pam